Do You Like to Cook?
Many years ago when the Food Channel didn’t exist, we used to look through piles of cooking books (Betty Crocker, Julia Child, Better Homes and Gardens cookbook, etc..) and collect recipes from grandmas, aunts, neighbors, mothers, friends, or anyone who cooked something we ate that tasted great. Cooking was the responsibility of the wife and the husband had the responsibility of eating and judging whether the recipe should be repeated or to be thrown in the garbage. Connected at the family and community level, but disconnected at the marriage level.
Now, cooking has become a passion for those who admire its creativity and versatility. A married couple can spend time together in the kitchen experimenting with different ways to make a recipe; for example, ratatouille with meat or without meat; corn bread with chocolate sauce or with ice cream; etc.
Actually, the reason I’ve decided to talk about cooking in an engaged couples blog is because research has found that when married couples enjoy cooking together and experimenting with recipes, the closer emotionally they’ll become; not mentioning their physical proximity when working together in the kitchen, which will help their energy fields around them interact and can cause a magnetic attraction between them of a romantic nature.
For engaged couples and newlyweds, start from the first day of your marriage, share the kitchen and enjoy the recipes. Love you both.