Today’s post is short because I’m posing a question for you.
Life is not life without problems! Any couple entering into a lifetime commitment knows well that they will face challenges and tribulations.
Depending on the problem, many different reactions can occur. Some will become aggressive verbally and/or physically, some will become emotional and cry, others will be passive and not face or confront the issue, yet others will analyze the event or situation and make a thought through decision, and so on.
One way to face a problem, especially if your partner is upset and very emotional, is to react in the same way your mate is reacting. Another is to retract until the problem is solved. Different ways are explored because of course people aren’t the same and reactions are totally different from one person to another.